1. But women can never be careful enough, can we? If we take naked pictures of ourselves, we’re asking for it. If someone can manage to hack into our accounts, we’re asking for it. If we’re not wearing anti-rape nail polish, we’re asking for it. If we don’t take self-defence classes, we’re asking for it. If we get drunk, we’re asking for it. If our skirts are too short, we’re asking for it. If we pass out at a party, we’re asking for it. If we are not hyper-vigilant every single fucking second of every single fucking day, we are asking for it. Even when we are hyper-vigilant, we’re still asking for it. The fact that we exist is asking for it.

    This is what rape culture looks like.

    This is what misogyny looks like.

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  2. minimalistfish:



    "Those poor boys"


    "She deserves to be punished too."


    "I’m not saying I support rape, but-"


    "Sorry to say - she deserved it."


    "She put herself in harm’s way"


    "But if she was fingered, then that’s not rape."


    "She ruined their lives."


    "Well she didn’t exactly say ‘no’.."


    "Yea, but did you see what she was wearing?"


    "Boys will be boys!"


    "She should know better than to drink at a party…"


    Cannot not reblog.

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  3. I always listen to you. Even when you’re being irrational.

    Remember when you said she was no good for me because she came from there. You said she knew “too much” about the world and she would corrupt me. You said so many foul things about her and yet so many years later she remains my closest friend.

    I listened to you because I love you even though you are so critical and judgemental. I didn’t even point to you that you were friends with someone who exhibited the same characteristics as this woman you wanted to save and protect me from. Your person lied to you. Your person accused me of despicable things. Your person isn’t a true friend, just someone you hang out with.

    You’ve never listened though…
    Flashback to 10 year old me. I told you he watched me as I was bathing when I was 4 and I asked him to leave. You said it couldn’t be devious because he was my uncle and I was young. But I remember exactly how I felt sitting in there even at that age trying to cover myself as he watched from the door and I yelled at him to go and he smiled and he stared.

    Flashback to 15 year old me. My first real boyfriend. You caught him walking me out of the school gate after he popped by after work and you told me I was being a slut at school. I told you it was innocent. We spent the afternoon reading in content silence in the library. You beat me black and blue because you didn’t listen.

    Flashback to 16 year old me when I told you about “the incident”. When I finally came clean about that time when I was six or seven and Brian coaxed me into the bathroom with threats of a spider and sexually molested me and you said it couldn’t be possible because he was young too and I was just dreaming it up.

    Listen to me before it’s too late. I know you mean well but you don’t know me. You are so much in denial about the things that make the fabric of my life. Listen to me for once please mom, before it’s too late.

  4. Just hanging out with diva cat :D

    Just hanging out with diva cat :D

  5. Subliminal sexual messaging
  6. 1. Why would I want to listen to a clean version of a song like Bandz a Make Her Dance?

    2. Is my cat conscious of her consciousness?

    3. Why does no one tell you that the hole in the cool drink can is for a straw?!

    4. One drives a car, flies a plane - what does one do to a ship? Ship a ship?

    5. Can Notting Hill really be on TCM already?! 0.o

    That is all.

  7. There’s a dark place inside you that you’re afraid to go to, but you somehow end there anyway more often than you like.

    It’s a place where the flowers don’t grow, nor the weeds.
    It’s too terrible. It’s barren.
    Nothing can survive in that place, not even you.

    I’m skirting the parameters through your eyes and hopeless I am.
    Petrified even.

    I once tried to follow you in but self-preservation wouldn’t allow me.

    Save yourself baby.
    I don’t. know.
    hooow to help you.


    Save yourself.

  8. Hell yeah I splurge money
    Hell yeah I act funny
    Look at you like fuck you
    All the shit I been thru
    It’s a wonder why im still here
    Said I was gone but im still here
    And all you bitches that left me here
    Its mighty strange how you right back here
    Wonderful - Ja Rule ft R Kelly and Ashanti
  9. I go looking for the lyrics to one song and instead I find this:

    Solange Knowles, T.O.N.Y

    T.O.N.Y don’t call no more
    No not at all no more
    Maybe there’s something wrong with his phone
    Or maybe it’s morning and the thrill is gone
    I’m not sure if I’m still respected
    And I’m not in a rush to feel rejected
    Not by T.O.N.Y

    T.O.N.Y don’t care no more
    He doesn’t want me there no more
    I just wanna know what I did wrong
    Damn this’ll make a real good song
    And I don’t have these nights to often
    I wish I could take my mind off it
    But I really like T.O.N.Y

    And he wasn’t just some regular guy
    T.O.N.Y’s actually The Other Night oh whY

    I could’ve been in love by now
    If it wasn’t for T.O.N.Y
    Ooh I could’ve been in love by now
    If it wasn’t for T.O.N.y ah

    Me and T.O.N.Y don’t speak no more
    It’s almost been a weak oh no
    My the time it goes so fast
    But I still refuse to call his ass
    I remember the way that I reacted
    And today’s even more attractive
    But I really miss T.O.N.Y

    But then T.O.N.Y called me one day
    He said that he just called to say hey
    And it wasn’t until he called me back
    That I realized I needed more than that
    I’m a lot wiser and a little older
    Hey baby it was nice to know ya
    Goodbye T.O.N.Y

    Still he wasn’t just some regular guy
    T.O.N.Y’s actually The Other Night oh whY

    I could’ve been in love by now
    If it wasn’t for T.O.N.Y (Ooh)
    I could’ve been in love by now
    If it wasn’t for T.O.N.Y

    I don’t go with yesterday no more (Ooh)
    Now I’m feeling free (I’m feeling free)
    Today tomorrow told me (What it say?)
    That’s where I should be (That’s where I should be)

    So I’m moving on (I’m moving)
    Yes I’m moving on (I’m going, oh, can’t wait forever)
    So I’m moving on (I’m going)
    Yes I’m moving on (I’m leaving, I miss you baby)

    Still he wasn’t just some regular guy
    T.O.N.Y’s actually the Other Night Yeah
    Yeah if it wasn’t for T.O.N.Y
    Ooh could’ve been in love by now
    If it wasn’t for T.O.N.Y

  10. radajeuvekgladna:

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